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Trying to conceive

At COPE, we’re here for you from the very beginning. Access trusted guidance, expert information, and compassionate support as you navigate the journey of trying to conceive.

Coping with loss

Coping with loss is deeply personal and painful — COPE offers gentle support, guidance, and understanding to help you navigate this difficult time.

Pregnancy

Navigate your pregnancy with confidence using COPE’s expert advice, emotional support, and reliable information tailored for every step of the journey.

Birth

Providing you with evidence based information to help prepare and nurture yourself before, during and following birth

New parents

Early parenthood can be joyful, challenging and everything in between. COPE provides you with expert guidance and real insights to help you feel seen and supported every step of the way.

Family, Friends & Community

Whether you're a partner, friend, or family member, COPE provides guidance and support to help you care for your loved one and yourself through every stage of parenthood.

Workplace support

COPE provides guidance and resources to help workplaces support the emotional wellbeing of expecting and new parents with care and understanding.

COPE Directory

If you're going through a tough time, you're not alone. The COPE Directory is a supportive first step toward finding the right help, close to home and tailored to your needs

About us

At COPE, we believe every parent deserves access to compassionate support and reliable information. Our mission is to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and empower families facing perinatal mental health challenges.

Get involved

Your support can make a lasting impact. By donating to COPE, you help to provide vital support, resources, and research for families facing perinatal mental health challenges. Together, we can make sure no parent is alone.

Getting help

Understand when to seek help, how to take the first step of talking to someone, types of support available, plus how to find specialised perinatal mental health support near you.

How to use these self-checks

All self-checks on this page are free, easy to complete and are anonymous. 

At the end of each self-check you will receive a score that indicates what you may be experiencing at this time, as well as relevant COPE resources and information that you may find helpful.

Important: Self-checks are not a diagnostic tool

The Depression, Anxiety and Stress Scale (DASS-21) and Birth Trauma (City BiTS) self-check tools are not to be used for a diagnosis. Rather, they are designed to identify whether you may benefit from further information and/or support.

Depression, Anxiety and Stress Self-Checks

The Depression, Anxiety and Stress Scale (DASS-21) Self-Check is a 21-item self-report questionnaire that measures the severity of depression, anxiety, and stress. The DASS-21 is a shortened version of the original DASS-42 and consists of seven questions for each of the three categories.

In addition to the combined Depression, Anxiety and Stress Self-Check, you may also choose to complete the focused self-checks; Depression, Anxiety, and Stress.

Depression, Stress, and Anxiety Self-Checks during infertility

The Depression, Anxiety and Stress Scale Infertility self-checks are designed to measure the severity of depression, anxiety, and stress for individuals experiencing infertility.

Nausea and Vomiting in Pregnancy Self-Check

Assessment of pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting (PUQUE Scale)

The following questions are designed to help you assess how extreme your symptoms of nausea and vomiting are during pregnancy.  This can help you to identify when it might be time to seek help, and also track changes in your symptoms over time.

Birth Trauma Self-Check

The City Birth Trauma Scale (City BiTS) is a questionnaire that is designed to measure Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) symptoms and their potential impact upon your mental health following childbirth. This is short, 5-item form of the City Birth Trauma Scale.

As birth trauma can be experienced by both parents, it can be a helpful tool to identify whether you may benefit from additional support following a birth that may have not gone to plan. 

Postnatal Rage

Exploring dimensions of anger reactions (DAR-5)

Experiencing anger or feelings of rage is often experienced by parents. Anger is associated with significant distress and can impact upon your feelings towards parenthood, your baby and those around you. It can also be a sign of other emotional and/or mental health issues.

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