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At COPE, we’re here for you from the very beginning. Access trusted guidance, expert information, and compassionate support as you navigate the journey of trying to conceive.

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Coping with loss is deeply personal and painful — COPE offers gentle support, guidance, and understanding to help you navigate this difficult time.

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Navigate your pregnancy with confidence using COPE’s expert advice, emotional support, and reliable information tailored for every step of the journey.

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Providing you with evidence based information to help prepare and nurture yourself before, during and following birth

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Early parenthood can be joyful, challenging and everything in between. COPE provides you with expert guidance and real insights to help you feel seen and supported every step of the way.

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Whether you're a partner, friend, or family member, COPE provides guidance and support to help you care for your loved one and yourself through every stage of parenthood.

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COPE provides guidance and resources to help workplaces support the emotional wellbeing of expecting and new parents with care and understanding.

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About us

At COPE, we believe every parent deserves access to compassionate support and reliable information. Our mission is to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and empower families facing perinatal mental health challenges.

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Your support can make a lasting impact. By donating to COPE, you help to provide vital support, resources, and research for families facing perinatal mental health challenges. Together, we can make sure no parent is alone.

Getting help

Understand when to seek help, how to take the first step of talking to someone, types of support available, plus how to find specialised perinatal mental health support near you.

What is stress? 

Stress is often associated with a feeling of losing control or not having the resources or ability to manage challenges that lie ahead.

While some degree of stress in our lives is normal, once this stress starts taking over, it can become distress. This can impact on your ability to function at your full capacity.

Factors that may increase stress

Some factors that may increase stress in pregnancy may include:

  • Having a stressful or unplanned pregnancy

  • Having a prior negative pregnancy, birth or early parenthood experiences. (For example, inadequate sleep, breastfeeding difficulties, or an unsettled baby)

  • Experiencing complications in the pregnancy

  • Being a single parent or adolescent. This may also cause you to feel more stressed or overwhelmed, as you contemplate how you will manage

  • Experiencing relationship difficulties with your partner. This can also greatly increase your feelings of distress and concern for the relationship as well as your feeling of security for your growing family.

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Relaxation strategies for stress during pregnancy

Want to learn how to reduce stress during pregnancy? Fortunately, there are a range of relaxation strategies that can be helpful and assist in alleviating your feelings of stress or apprehension.

Many pregnant women and their partners find that using various relaxation techniques can help to reduce levels of stress and maintain a feeling of wellbeing during pregnancy. These techniques can be undertaken for free, at any time and in any quiet space that you have to yourself. This makes them relatively easy strategies to employ if you are looking to feel more relaxed and less stressed during your pregnancy.

Some recommended techniques that women find effective during pregnancy include:

Guided muscle relaxation

This technique involves tensing and relaxing specific muscle groups around your body.  This can help release the muscle tension caused by stress. It can also assist you with sleeping if you are dealing with pregnancy-related insomnia.

Breathing exercises

Become aware of your breathing.  Breathing in and out deeply and evenly can ensure you have the right balance of oxygen and carbon dioxide in your system.  This form of controlled breathing keeps your mind and body functioning well. It can also lower your blood pressure, promote feelings of calmness and help you to de-stress and relax.

Guided mental imagery

Close your eyes and imagine that you are in a safe, calm and relaxing place. This can be an effective way to remove yourself from current stressors in your environment and, as a result, relieve feelings of stress.

What are the best self-help strategies for relaxation?

There are many apps, websites and podcasts available to help you with these self-help strategies for relaxation. 

Keep in mind though, that some of the digital tools work better for some people than others. 

Don’t be surprised if it requires some trial and error to find the one that works best for you; you may indeed prefer to join a community group class.

Reduce stress during pregnancy with Ready to COPE

Women who are pregnant or have recently had a baby can receive Ready to COPE, a free guide that delivers timely information, advice and reassurance throughout pregnancy and the first year of parenthood.

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